Thursday, July 31, 2008

Another post so soon?

I couldn't resist posting this video showing how hard Megan is working on her signs!




Jason, a long-time work friend of Eric's, his wife Kelly and their baby Nathan joined us for dinner.

Megan Ling really liked Nathan and wanted to hug him immediately. She loved his tiny feet and hands. He has a beautiful smile!


Mary Alice took this great photo of Matthew and Megan, but somehow she avoided the camera herself .....

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Lots of Fun

We had a wonderful visit with Eric's brother's family last week. Evan & Kathy came for the weekend and left their kids with us for the week and Marion & Tom took them back the following Sunday. Rachael is 14 and Ian is 16 and they are lovely, enjoyable kids. They were an amazing help to me with jobs around the house and even tackled the weeding of my very overgrown back garden. PLUS they made dinner for us all one night. A very yummy Ziti casserole which we all enjoyed. It was very fun having them and VERY sad when they went home!!! Megan could not get enough of "Cha Cheh" and "Eeeahh"!

Ian


Rachael


Evan & Kathy


Grandpa Tom & Grandma Marion


Megan loves to make enchiladas!!




We had a visit from another Great Wall China Adoption (our agency) family. Elissa & Tim live in Virginia and traveled to Niagara Falls for a visit. I "met" Elissa through my Yahoo Great Wall group and I invited her to stop by for dinner on their way through the area. They are at the beginning of the adoption process and are still assembling their dossier for Log In. They have three children and are very excited to have a daughter from China someday.


Megan Ling is really enjoying her new preschool. They have a summer camp and she has been going 2-3 days a week. they do all kinds of activities around a different theme each day. She has made new friends and the teachers say she is doing great!!! Here she is with Miss Sherrie.

and Miss Michelle

and Miss Dawn (Megan was barely cooperating by this third photo)


In September, Megan will receive OT, PT, Speech, and Special Education services in a mixture of before & after school and at home. I am so glad that I had this evaluation done because she really is trying hard to say and do many things and due to her articulation delays she is incredibly hard to understand as her vocabulary increases. The team that will service her are all very experienced and have worked together for years! We are all learning sign language to pair with her speech to help us understand her better. Megan is very receptive to this and enjoys using signs. One of my adoption friends loaned me a set of 12 children's videos called Signing Time. They are wonderful, simple videos with about 12-15 signs per video and show lots of children using the sign and examples of the concepts. Mary Alice and Matthew really enjoy learning them and are naturals in communicating with Megan.

Matthew is nurturing these Monarch Chrysalises, which he grew from eggs he found on Milkweed in our garden. He is a very observant kid, as these eggs are the size of a very tiny pinhead. They will hatch in about 9 more days and I will try to remember to post some photos of the butterflies. It's funny that the second caterpillar chose to make his chrysalis right next to the first. They were about a day apart in their cycles. They are literally hanging from the bars right next to one another. Very interesting.


Megan is zooming around on her bike now. She can ride all the way to her preschool, which is about a block and a half away.


I got Megan's passport and social security card last week. It did not take long at all for either of them. I am still waiting for a court date for our readoption in the US (all the paperwork is filed and it's just pending a date) and then I can get her US birth certificate. It is nice to have these milestones behind me.

Monday, July 14, 2008

"No" is a complete sentence!

Now that she had learned to say "No" when she doesn't want something (instead of screaming or squealing), Megan Ling uses it all the time. She says it even when she means yes. I am reminded again of the two year old phase where NO is every other word. Pretty soon I expect her to start asking "Why? for everything. Yesterday she put two words together on her own "Mama, help!", which was great progress. I also noticed her trying to use her scissors to cut a nice chunk out of her hair, but luckily Eric stopped her in time!



Megan Ling started going to a preschool around the corner from home. It is a lovely, small and well-run place and the teachers are doing wonderful activities with the kids. They have a summer themed day program and she is going 1-2x a week and then 3x a week in September for 2 1/2 hours each day. She has gone twice already and absolutely loves it. Here she is on her first day. She is so excited about "skool".


We got a new kitchen table. We did not all fit at the old one. Its 54" round and we had a cabinet maker custom make the top-covered in wood laminate. It has a wooden pedestal and we were able to use our old chairs, saving significant cost. We love it. It feels so much better and now I can push in all the chairs!



Over the weekend we went to my step-brother, Billy's for his annual birthday celebration. I took this sneak photo of Mary Alice carrying Megan Ling. She NEVER lets me take her picture and either runs away or sticks out her tongue. It's blurry, but it's real.

Here are Billy & Janis with their new niece!


and our family....

Here she is modeling her new suit from our dear friends, Ken & Jen and kids....

And this last picture is of Matthew and two of his best friends having a water war in the baby pool. It was amazing to see how much fun they could have in a such a tiny pool. Matthew is having a great summer just playing around.


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Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Wow..time flies.......post adoption, that is.....

For the last three weeks I have been trying to find time to make a post. I know what the problem is. I am too perfectionistic for my own good. I knew that I would not be able to write all the details that I want, as I only have about 5 minutes here and there, and I did not want to start and be frustrated that I could not finish. Well, now I am very behind in my sharing, so this will be long in photos and not very detailed. Don't forget, you can click on any photo to enlarge it and see better.

We have been sooooo busy with the end of school and it's associated obligations and many family events.

First, we celebrated Father's day with Gramma Marion and Grandpa Tom (Eric's parents) and sister, Aunt Kate. Grandpa Jerry and Iris came, too.



Grandpa Tom, Megan Ling & Aunt Kate



Matthew received two awards at the end of school assembly, one for overall academic achievement and effort and one for top honors in French. Here he is with his French teacher.



He also claims this is his first real rainbow!


On the 19th we went to Cousin Amanda's (Linda's brother's oldest child-M & C went to China with us) wedding in Sewanee, Tenessee!! Matthew and Mary Alice were in the wedding. Megan Ling loved it. Our whole family was there, so we all enjoyed being together for the weekend. We stayed in luxury cabins around a small park like lake.

Here are Megan Ling and Mary Alice playing in the park.



Megan watching Aunt Cindy get her hair done.


Mary Alice's pretty hairdo.


Megan Ling doing cousin Dawn's hair. One of her favorite things to do.


Mary Alice and Dawn on wedding day.They really hit it off!


Mom and Megan Ling.


Gramma Judy (Linda's mom)


Megan took this one!



Megan and cousin, Kiera.


Cindy, Marty and Amanda.


The beautiful girls.


Linda's (Marty's) side of the family.


The bride and groom at the rehearsal. What a gorgeous chapel. We had a wonderful time and were so lucky to be able to spend that special time together.


After we got back from Tennessee, we had Physical and Occupational Therapy Evaluations and both therapists are recommending services for Megan Ling through the school district. I will have a meeting next week to finalize the program, which will start in september. She is making great progress and can now pedal her tricycle and steer herself quite well down the sidewalk. She also loves the trampoline and can really jump well. Her legs are getting stronger every day.

Megan Ling went to her first friend birthday party at a tumbling center. She had a wonderful time jumping on all the equipment and using the bounce house. She even tried the zip line, which went over the sponge filled pit. She loved it all. Here she is with Hannah, the birthday girl (on the right).


On the 30th, Eric and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary, and I am sorry to report that it consisted of kisses blown each other's way as we dashed around the house trying to put it back together after our Tennessee trip. We love each other as much as the day we married (even more) and our so thankful that we have each other in our lives. We both agree that we could not do it without the other. Unfortunately, I did not get a photo to commemorate the occasion. I will have to get one soon.

The first week in July, the older kids started their summer activities and I am doing lots of driving. Mary Alice is taking trumpet lessons, doing a week each of a restaurant class and a scrapbooking class. Matthew is playing two weeks of flag football, roller hockey, and a short golf camp. Megan Ling will start going to her preschool this week for some summer classes once a week. We visited last week to drop off the payment and she loved it so much, she did not want to leave. I think it will be so great for her to be with the other kids.

On July 3rd we celebrated Megan Ling's 4th birthday! She did not seem to really understand the whole thing, but she loved having her whole family and friends over all at once. She enjoyed her cupcakes and her presents and later on Eric sent up some fireworks that she thought were all for her.

Kaitlyn (friend) & Megan Ling


Matthew & Megan Ling


Whole family!


Presents!


This is so great!!!


Megan's language is exploding (still delayed, but great progress). She now independently uses the words Hi, mom, thank you, tissue, bless you, yes, no, down, ball, pretty, Abby, me, help, open and a few others. She seems to understand everything we say to her, as long as it is simple. Here she is "painting" the steps with a bucket of water. She painted the siding and steps for about 45 minutes the other day!


During naptime the last week, Mary Alice and I cleaned and organized her room. She "hired" me as her organizer and I treated her like a client and we touched everything in the room and reconfigured her closet so that it better accommodated her interests and activities. She seems to be much happier with it, although she still seems to be a "piler". Here are the "after" pictures.


Here is a recent photo of Sofia Bao, (Bao Bao), Megan's Ling's friend who was also recently adopted from Chaoyang. She is doing great and is already speaking in 4 word English sentences. Her mom and I have compared notes and seem to be experiencing the same crazy business and exploring. Neither one can be left alone for any minutes or they do something either risky or unintentionally destructive. For example, I found Megan Ling coloring on her pants, the walls, sticking things into outlets, etc, etc. Hopefully, this stage won't last long. :) Isn't she adorable?




And last, but certainly not least, the Chaoyang Mission Group has arrived in China and are there now with the babies and children. They are playing with the children, helping with tasks around the orphanage and praying for the quick arrival of the 20 cribs that they ordered for the infants. They are hoping the cribs arrive by Thursday, which is their last day at the orphanage. They want to help them set up the cribs and take photos. You can see their blogs at Visiting Orphans at Chaoyang and Crebbin Happenings. They are doing wonderful work.


Well, it took me two hours and now it's time for me to feed my family. I hope it won't be so long next time!