Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Thanksgiving 2008


We had a wonderful time on our annual Thanksgiving in Georgia visit. We always look forward to this weekend with excitement and anticipation of a fast and furious, intense time for connecting and catching up with each other. Marty and Cindy host us in their beautiful home. Their three adult children, my mom, my sister and her family and our family all stay with them. Luckily, their home is designed to accommodate the masses and we are all still speaking at the end of the weekend!

Here are some pictures of us on our way to Georgia:


Waiting for Grandma's plane to arrive:


Exhausted already? No, just naptime.



There were lots of hugs all around:











Oreo Cookie Turkeys!


Megan loved to "Cheers! with her Sparkling Apple Juice and special glass!!


And of course, hair dressing....


Fun and games


The annual Craft Project this year was Cardboard Frog Olympics


And lots of music making


Go Cindy!


Go Megan!










And general hanging out


Finally, the ride back to the airport. Good to have a shoulder to lean on....


And now for the laundry........

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

First Snow!!



Wow! Two posts in one day! I just had to share these photos of her enjoying her first snow.

Let the Dancing Begin!!!



Megan is going to begin dancing after school on Wednesdays through a Kinderdance program at her preschool. She is SO EXCITED!!! We just had to share the video of her trying out her new outfit.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Now we have had her 6 months!!!

We have been having lots of fun lately. Mary Alice, who is taking Spanish, had fun on Beret Day, Sponsored by the French Students, and immediately made a Beret for our cats to model. Here they are, Jasmine and Misty. For those of you who do not know, Mary Alice is quite a Cat Hat Maker, and some of you have had the privilege of viewing her private collection. Maybe someday she will give me permission to share it, as it deserves a post of its own. It's hilarious. And yes, the cats tolerate this dressing up in good humor.






Megan has been making "soup" at school for the month of November. We made soup at home, both real and pretend, too. Mary Alice loves to play with her in Megan's kitchen.


Below is pie, which she also made at school and of course, I had to make some at home, too! Turns out she loves pie!!!!


I am not at all sure that she "got" the idea of Halloween, but she thought the pumpkin gushy stuff was great. She and daddy are having fun carving at our annual church party.


The finished pumpkins are below, Megan's first, Mary Alice's and then, the amazing pumpkin by Matthew, who worked for hours and hours, even avoiding dinner and dessert to finish!!! It's hard to compete with Matthew!




Mary Alice was a colonial girl. Megan chose be an ice cream cone but only kept the costume on long enough to walk next door, and then shed it, preferring instead the ease of being a pumpkin.........




Here are our neighborhood children. It's cute to see how much Megan is enjoying herself. She had no idea who they were until we showed her one at a time.



Here is a new photo of Bao Bao, (now Sofia), her "sister" from her orphanage in China, adopted at the same time as Megan. Sofia is doing wonderful and is talking like crazy. We keep in touch regularly and recently were able to "see" them over Skype with our webcam. Sofia is visiting an Apple Farm in this picture and is 3 years old.



While we are incredibly happy and think that things could not have gone better in our last 6 months with Megan, there have been some bumps in the road. She is very self directed and determined and we have had to be very strict with her about things she can and cannot do herself. She is incredibly curious (like a certain little monkey) and has no idea about the dangers that lurk around the house or the consequences of her actions. For example, one day I went to unbuckle her from her booster and she happily handed me a feather that she had been sucking on and stripped clean!! I have no idea where she got it from. Later that day, we were in the kitchen and I was loading the dishwasher and I turned about to find her eating old rice (from the previous night's dinner) off the plates! Another time, when I gave her the garbage to clean up some paper she was cutting, she said "Mama, Egg!" and showed me some raw eggs she had pulled out which I had cracked some time earlier and thrown away. Each time Megan gets into something like that I think "wow!" I didn't even think of that as a possible issue. Childproofing seems impossible with a curiousity level like that!! So anyway, I felt driven to create some very safe area in the house (within my immediate view) where she can play without me worrying about what she is doing every second. This resulted in our changing around our furniture and turning our family room into a reading/play room and the living room into the TV, media, Computer, music area. Now I can gate off the living/dining room and feel much better about her roaming around the family room. I also created an area in the basement (with the help of her lovely special ed teacher, Therese) which is simple and easy for her to play in and clean up. It took a lot of time & effort, (thank you Eric, for spending all last Saturday running the TV/Phone lines to the living room! OXOXOX) but was well worth it.

Megan's language continues to expand and she is now putting some 2-3 word combinations together. She is naming pictures in books, and this week has discovered how to move the cursor with the mouse on the computer, AND CLICK!!! without moving the mouse again, which opens up a whole new world of possible activities to her. She has a favorite video on you tube called the Tweenies Wheels on the Bus, and now she can click and replay it over and over!! Her teachers are thrilled with her progress and feel she is doing incredibly well with routines and concept development. She is rote counting sporadically through 15 or so, (not really with 1-1 correspondence), can name the letters A and M, is trying desperately to pronounce Megan correctly and can name most colors. Wow, it's incredible progress in 6 months, even if English were her first langauge.

Matthew and Mary Alice both made it into the Middle School Geography Bee! Only the top 30 scoring students in the school (of about 800) are invited to participate. Last year, Matthew won the Bee and ended up making it to the State competition level. The contest will be the day before Thanksgiving. We are very proud of them. There are several sites with games for studying and one of them includes an interactive "find that state" game. I am embarrased to say that I have no idea where over half of our states are!!! I don't even know which half of the country some are in!! I really need to practice with these maps. I can do some things amazingly well, and that is simply not one of them. And my kid won last year, and yes... he's a biological one!!! Go figure.....

We are getting ready for our annual Thanksgiving Visit to my brother's house in Georgia. We have gone every year since Matthew was a baby. We are all so excited to have Megan join us this year!!! My mother comes from Florida, as well as my sister and her family (who live near us). We have so much fun together, but it goes by way too fast. My brother has a big house so we can all stay together and enjoy the weekend.

Here is a cute video of Megan doing a "magic trick" with a disappearing ice cube.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Language Update & Another Family Dinner

School is going very well for Megan. She really enjoys the singing and movement of the three year old classroom. Her language is expanding rapidly. She is now saying things like "I do", "I sleep", "I eat", "I cut", "Mine", "Myself" and many other "proper noun-verb" combos. She understands things like "We need the umbrellas" and can easily go and get them for me. It's really quite amazing. We can understand many of her words, with context, but her articulation is still very distorted (improving) and she leaves the endings off most words. The sign language is very helpful to us all!!

Iris & Dad hosted a pre Thanksgiving family dinner for us (as we travel to GA to see my brother and his family each year), complete with Turkey and fixings. It was wonderful. We met, Jordan, a friend of the family, who is a very amazing young man. He is 16 years old and fascinated with China. He has taught himself to read, write and speak fluently in Chinese! He talked and played with Megan and they both really enjoyed themselves. Megan seemed to understand some of what he said, and responded a tiny bit in what sounded like some Chinese, but as it was in China when we first met her, she seemed to have not much more ability to make Chinese sounds than she does in English. On the way home she was yelling something that sounded like "I love Jordan (jah jah)!" making me laugh.

Here are some photos. Unfortunately, I did not get a picture of Megan and Jordan, although he offered to baby sit anytime and I will definately take him up on it and get a picture then!!


Sue & Jim


Silly Megan!

Mary Alice's Birthday Party

We celebrated Mary Alice's 10th Birthday with a few friends at a local riding stable that she loves to go to. She has been riding there for three years, and she really feels comfortable and at home. She is suddenly seeming so much more grown up to me. She and Megan are developing a loving and fun relationship and it really brings me joy to see how much they like to laugh together.



Megan looks a little stunned in this picture but she loved riding!!!



I think this is a beautiful set of photos.



Here is her American Girl, Kelsey, in her new western riding outfit (thanks Grandma Judy), saddle and hat!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Re-Adoption Day


On Tuesday, we went downtown to the courthouse for Megan's re-adoption Ceremony. Despite the glowing photo, the morning was anything but calm as Matthew aggravated a pulled muscle in his neck getting up out of bed and was writhing in pain, and Mary Alice was sick for the 2nd day in a row with a miserable cold. Everyone was rather grumpy, and I did not know what to do with two very unhappy, uncomfortable children and a court date at 10:30 downtown. I called the pediatrician's office in desperation and ended up taking them right away to the doctor and just making it in time to the appointment. It turned out to be nothing too serious for Matthew, but at least we learned how to treat it and Mary Alice was reminded to use her nasal spray and it has helped a lot. All of us are feeling better. It happened to be that Eric's dad died 13 years ago on this very day, so we had lots of mixed emotions. He would have loved Megan Ling.

I recently bought a webcam to talk to my mom in Florida! It works great and Megan loves it. Mary Alice does not like to feel so exposed though, and runs away 50% of the time. Her is Megan talking to Grandma Judy!

Mary Alice will turn 10 next week, so we had a family dinner last weekend to celebrate hers and Iris' birthdays. It was the first family dinner I felt I could host in a long time, I guess I have been feeling well over my normal limit. It's been hard to keep up my normal level of expectations. September is a difficult month for me each year and this year I have had so much to do. I went back to my organizing business, working with clients on Tuesdays and half day Fridays, and it is really a lot of pressure for me. I love doing it, but it may have been better if I had given myself another month. I am really watching what I am committed to and trying to say "yes" very sparingly.



Megan is doing so well, I can hardly believe it. Her language is really blossoming and she uses so many signs and vocal combinations. She is starting to put three and four word sentences together and is generalizing all kinds of things. She still does not have 1-1 correspondence, but she loves to count 1-2-3! She loves to sing and we can get her to cooperate with us even if she doesn't want to, by turning it into a song (which is exhausting, but nonetheless, a good technique). Her special ed teacher suggested that she try going to the three's class at preschool, instead of the fours and see how it works for her. I agreed to try it last Monday and she did great. It is a much better fit for her at this point and we will see what happens later. They are focusing on concrete skills of colors and shapes and counting and she is not too far over her head. In the fours it was just way too abstract. She is happy no matter where she is, and she loves her school and all her teachers. These are her new teachers.

Miss Sue
Miss Laura

This is a creation that Megan made out of blocks! We have been home with her for 4 months now and in January it will be a year since I first saw her face on a photo. I can hardly believe it, yet, I cannot imagine my life without her. What a blessing and so much to be Thankful for.